I had a conversation with good friend today about "friendship" and why I really don't fuck with many girls like that these days..I can honestly say that I keep a handful of people around me by Choice!! It's always been hard for me to keep a good batch of girls around me. Its like I can smell the bullshit coming. I think that females are way too envious of each other, not genuine, and more times than not they have an ulterior motive..I find that many of the girls that I've dealt with have never been truly Happy for a sista, and it's a shame because I can honestly say that they're the ones missing out. And yea, I talk to a lot of people, I play the same bullshit roles that they play with me, somewhat as a mockery, because at the end of the day, I KNOW who is really on my side. I hate being Fake, I feel stupid being Fake to someone that I know is being Fake towards me, but sometimes a girl just can't be bothered with all the Nonsense! (Listen: There is no sense in being Envious of others..that's a lack on your part for being lazy. If someone gets to you that bad then do something with yourself!!) I've made a decision last year to cut out all those loose ends in my life, people Especially!! I'm pink, and well on my way to a Happier life filled with Positivity!!!
"BE WARY OF FRIENDS-THEY WILL BETRAY YOU MORE QUICKLY, FOR THEY ARE EASILY AROUSED TO ENVY." -ROBERT GREENE
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Ain't that the truth!! I have had a few rude awakenings regarding friends in my life...but I don't sweat it. They are the ones missing out on a loyal, caring, real person in their lives. I take it as a lesson learned and it truly makes me appreciate those that make the cut and prove their worth to me. I'm not with the competitiveness or tearing down of other women to make myself feel better...I have self-confidence and like who I am inside! I know u do too =)
ReplyDeleteRight, it's really mind boggling what women do to eachother when it comes to friendships, relationships, etc..I hear that on the competitiveness too..girls tend to feel that its a competition thing just because they see u love to take extra care of yourself. Sorry ladies, it sint all about you as it is more for SELF!!! Besides, a True Confident Woman KNOWS her worth, her Value, and that she has something Different to offer, therefore there is no Competiotion, it's all in their head!! And yess like u said, Inner beauty at the end of the line ALWAYS wins first place!! Thank u for commenting Chica!!
ReplyDeleteOhhhhhh, please don't get me started on this subject! Lol. We've spoken about this before La and you know I can go on for days about this!! All I have to say is be your OWN person, don't try to change who you are to be accepted! Do what makes YOU happy- don't do what everyone else is doing! There should be NO competition amongst friends....and that is why I have chosen to cut those "extra" people out of my life who feel like they need to compete. This isn't a race or competition, baby girl, this is MY life! Go live yours!! LOL.[sorry, had to let it out]. Surround yourself with people who respect you and people whom you respect is my motto!!! Love the blog!!! Keep doing your thing!!! :)
ReplyDeleteYESS, people need to preoccupy their self with THEMSELVES NOT with what the next person is doing!! And if you admire someone, then tell them, give them CREDIT for it (oh thats a whole nother subject)!! I might write about that tonight lol!! Thank u!!
ReplyDeleteOMG! I had to comment on this blog! I can't hold out! But you girls should consider teaching classes on how to be Lysandra and Chala. Cuz i hear you girls are most wanted to be! lol.. luv u girls and keep doing your thing!
ReplyDeleteLOL I GUESS I SO HAPPENED TO STIKE THE RIGHT NERVE AT THE RIGHT TIME... LOL, THANK U CLAUDIA!!!
ReplyDeleteSAID WELL BABY DOLL THATS EXACTLY WHY I STAY BY MY DOLO... LA tOYA!
ReplyDeleteLOL, SOMETIMES YOUR BETTER OFF BABY GIRL!!
ReplyDeleteYou couldn't be more right about this.. I feel you!! I know sooo many girls and can't even call one my best friend.. My best friend is a male, he knows more about me than anyone else... Girls are shady and on the low are not happy when you are doing good.. I don't get it.. I love for my friends to do good and if there's anything I can do to help, I will.
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YES GIRL SO TRUE!! I CAN TELL UR GOOD PEOPLE..AND THAT'S A BEAUTIFUL THING!! I LIKE U, ALWAYS THOUGHT U WERE KOOL!!! WOMEN NEED TO COME TOGETHER MORE, SUPPORT EACH OTHER, HEY IF U CAN'T BEAT EM, JOIN EM, LOL!! THNX!!
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